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Despite all the warnings and so-called experts in the grief industry — and, yes, it is an actual industry with therapy and retreats and support groups — I have checked off just about every box of things that widows are cautioned against doing.

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There are no wringing hands or tissue boxes at the ready when we talk about their imminent departures for college. The mood is excited, not sad.

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